Free speed dating timer. Standard rounds: 3–5 minutes. The alarm signals rotation time. Use for organised speed dating events or icebreaker networking rounds.
Standard speed dating: 3–5 minutes per round. Research on speed dating psychology shows that 3 minutes is sufficient for an attraction decision and 5 minutes is the sweet spot for forming a meaningful initial impression. Rounds shorter than 2 minutes feel rushed; longer than 7 minutes show diminishing returns for new information.
Typically 10–25 rounds depending on event size. At 5 minutes per round with 1-minute rotation: 20 rounds = 2 hours. Most events aim for 12–18 rounds for a comfortable session. Larger events may run multiple simultaneous tracks with the same timer managing all tracks.
Yes — speed networking (structured professional meetings) uses the same format: 3–5 minute one-on-one conversations, timer-directed rotations. Used at conferences, alumni events, and startup networking. The timer removes the social awkwardness of ending a conversation — the bell does it neutrally.
Effective openers: "What was the highlight of your week?" "What are you most excited about right now?" "What do you do outside of work that you would do even if you weren't paid?" These questions reveal character and energy quickly. Avoid: "What do you do?" as an opener — it often leads to status comparisons rather than genuine connection.
Each participant has a scorecard with all other participants listed. After each round, they mark yes/no (or 1–5 rating). After the event, the organiser collects scorecards and matches pairs where both said yes. Mutual matches receive each other's contact details. No-shows hear nothing, protecting people from one-sided rejection.